*UPDATE* 8/27 - your comments are cracking me up! i've put the nicer version of the magnet and the print in the shop; if you want the spicy one, just let me know in the notes to seller.
a quick doodly-oodle about what to do with naysayers, idea poppers, sunshine squashers, whatever you want to call them! most of us know at least a few, and if you're a parent like me you may have even found yourself in the wretched role of having to be one every so often. anyway:
i couldn't settle on one version so i'm keeping both: